Why do we hide behind sunglasses?
Selfies, boomerangs, the cult of visibility is pushed to its maximum. The question of the moment: “How are you, not on Insta”? Even if you have no photo to promote, even if you are not especially narcissistic, you have to post photos of yourself or your balcony. On the public stage, the competition is tough. Even if the sunglasses at PKBAZAAR.PK are less than before a code of the jet set, it remains a filter, an asset to stand out. To look permanently like PKBAZAARor the Daft Punk and wearing the full face helmet is almost a modern way to be seen, noticed.
TO HAVE AN ACCESSORY OF STAR, IT IS TO BE A LITTLE STAR
Do not we say that “the look is the mirror of the soul”? For Sunglasses for sale in Pakistan gestalt therapist and former director of the Paris School of Gestalt, this accessory indicates a need to appropriate the star system but also a desire to disrupt the “full contact”. We all resort to seduction and success supports, “identificatory models”; sunglasses are an obvious symbol. Their message: “I’m not Eva Longoria nor Rihanna but I can look like them”. It is a way of integrating a universe and proclaiming: “If I were rich, I would get tanned in Saint-Martin and I would wear these glamorous glasses on the beach”. It is the same order as buying a book on Brazil when you can not afford the trip. This accessory is also the gateway to the world of luxury, more expensive than a varnish, less expensive than a designer handbag. With that on the nose, for sure, we are part of the gratin.
IS TIMIDITY (FEAR OF THE LOOK OF OTHERS) OR VOYEURISM (SEE WITHOUT BEING SEEN)?
When we are shy, we wear something obvious? Not sure … It’s mostly a takeover on the other. If we talk to someone without removing their smoked glasses, we mean this: “I look at you, as I want and almost without your knowledge”. In Gestalt (therapeutic approach focused on the art of contact and the here and now), Gonzague Masquelier propose to draw the attention of the person on the symbolism of this accessory: “I will make them wear during the session for that it verbalizes the effect that it makes him to have on the nose and what it gives him in his relationship to the other. Seduction or self-protection tool? Need re-insurance? It expresses a difficulty in relation to the other and the unconscious desire to create discomfort. This is why this object is associated with arrogance.
WHY IT IS ALSO A COOL AND SEXY ACCESSORY?
It evokes the beach, the holidays, the idleness. When one wears the headband, sunglasses become a hair accessory. It’s a way of putting one’s face down, showing that one is friendly. But chic people also say that it makes “Mireille D’arc in the movies of the 70s” or starlet that does not have the codes. At the limit, better hang them in the shirt or put them in his pocket, to get them to the right place at the right time. At that moment, they can be used as a cosmetic detail, just like a lipstick that is carelessly taken out of the bag. Where the message conveyed by the sunglasses is less cool, it is when one realizes that idleness is also related to tax havens, easy money, as opposed to toil, to the collective effort.